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So You Think You Have It Under Control?

Published on 4/14/2018
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So You Think You Have It Under Control?

Most people perceive perfectionism in a positive light... 

Hey look at me... I got life all sorted, everything is exactly how it needs to be... Aren't I the clever one?... Gloats the ego

Many reinforce perfectionism as a highly desirable trait by showing an attitude of envy towards those who appear to have immaculate houses, manicured lawns, flawless appearances and cookie cutter lifestyles, where everything in UNDER CONTROL ...

And that's exactly it... It's control 
And external control is always fear based

Perfectionists are only comfortable when they can control their external world... Because they cannot control their internal discomfort, when faced with chaos... Because they do not trust their ability to react and respond to turmoil, if it were to arise

They cannot relax in a messy house
They cannot be seen without being immaculate 
They cannot stay calm in a storm
They cannot live life in the moment 
They cannot just be and live in flow
They cannot let go

They are always living in the future... Preparing the best they can for smooth sailing... They cannot feel good about themselves unless they are in control of the world around them

Perfectionism is not a strength... It's a weakness 
True strength comes from internal power ...


Letting go of needing to change anything about our outside world, knowing all we really need to be able to manage, is ourselves and how we react and respond to chaos, as it arises in any given moment

Once we do, we discover an incredible freedom... 
An internal power that lifts us so high... 
High enough to fly
Free with the knowing 
We can fly through any storm
Life throws at us

Free with the trust
That we can just be 


So You Think You Have It Under Control?

Share with me what your thoughts on this are. What are you willing to do, TODAY< to step up and stand in your greatness? 

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