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Live Your Truth

Published on 5/29/2018
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Live Your Truth

There's this thing that happens when you give love to someone who doesn't love themselves.

Ultimately, because they don't know that they are worthy of love, they cannot trust the love you give them.

They cannot see themselves beyond the overwhelming feelings of inadequacy, wrongness and not being enough. This paralyzingly shame does not allow them to even imagine it's possible to be loved for who they are as they are. So no matter how much you love them, they will never truly believe your love to be honest and true. They will unconsciously doubt it. They can't believe someone would truly love them as they are because they themselves cannot see anything worthy of loving.

Eventually, their distrust will push you away. They'll seek someone else with which they will start the cycle again attempting to use another's love to prove to themselves they are worthy of loving. Yet, this compensatory strategy will never work.

Seeking proof that they are worthy of being loved through an outside source will never successfully convince them because they will inevitably never trust the outside source. It's likely they even unconsciously believe the outside source to be foolish or stupid for loving them because their own belief is they aren't worthy of loving. 


This is especially true if they have allowed themselves to be vulnerable and revealed what they believe to be so deeply wrong about themselves. Then you've seen what they believe to be the shameful truth about them and because they are not capable of holding themselves lovingly, they will think neither can you. They will constantly feel judged, and project the judgment is coming from you no matter how much evidence you give them of your unconditional love.

You can never convince another or prove to them they are worthy of love. They must choose to know and trust that for themselves. They themselves must courageously confront the lies of unworthiness they tell themselves, and let them all go. 


Only they can break the spell that trauma cast. It's nobody's fault. There is no one to blame. There is just freedom waiting for them whenever they are finally ready to release the suffering.

And, here's the tricky twist to it all. When you know you cannot convince another of their worth and finally stop trying, you are free. You are free from needing to prove your own worth by convincing another of theirs.

Live Your Truth

I trust you can see the lesson and apply it both personally and professionally as it represents a limiting belief system that is found quite easily in the human condition.

Share with me what your thoughts on this are. What are you willing to do, TODAY< to step up and stand in your greatness? 

To Your Abundance and Prosperity!

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