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Are You Programmed To Fail
don sabelhaus, commerce, sell, skepticism, fail

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Are You Programmed To Fail by Don Sabelhaus

More than likely you’re in the 92% of the worlds population that hates to be sold, I am, when someone tries to sell me an alarm goes off and I dig in for the fight. I have often said that if commerce depended on people like me there would be none.

Considering the percentage of people who do not like to be sold I’m of the opinion it is more than a learned or programmed behavior and more of something etched in the collective consciousness.

I personally (before becoming involved in the business myself) thought marketing was the practice of trying to sell someone something they didn’t need. I’ve since changed my way of thinking to marketing is the practice of helping someone understand the need for something, my definition.

The marketing is necessary to overcome this natural skepticism we are obviously born with. Without marketing the only commerce taking place would be for necessities, how boring would that be?

There are necessities and there are wants, to entirely different things. As an example you may need transportation in which a bicycle would fill the need, but you want a car. Which do you have more desire for, bicycle or car? Think about it, wants carry a lot of weight.

Most of us in online marketing “want” an income stream, and there are many opportunities available for them here online but that pesky inborn skepticism may be preventing us from being aware of the very thing we want when it appears right before our eyes. It’s almost as if we are programmed to fail.

Here’s something I would like to introduce you to that is a guaranteed winner if you are willing to take the action necessary to achieve it and there is no big investment required. Let me put the investment into perspective, for what you could spend at Starbucks on a single drink, for what you could spend on a combo meal at Wendy’s or McDonalds, for what you could spend on one gallon of gas in some parts of the world, the list could go on and on, $5 will get you into a potential profit stream.

You’ve had the pitch, now suspend your skepticism and do something good for yourself. Click the website link at the top of this article and sign up, you won’t be sorry.

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© 5-22-2012 Don Sabelhaus



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Lonnie E. Shipe, M.A.     361 day(s) ago
There was much wisdom in your blog. I appreciate all the wisdom you offer me. Thank you.
 
Christine I.   361 day(s) ago
Great article Don!
 
Wayne Brooks   361 day(s) ago
Don, Great insight and perspective on marketing. Excellent post. By the way, thanks for your IBO spirit.
 
Duane Lindquist   362 day(s) ago
Very well put Don, you got me thinking.
 
Don Fodor   362 day(s) ago
I've spend $5 on lotto tickets a week just because! Sounds like a better profit stream here for sure...Thanks for sharing.
 
Valerie E Young   362 day(s) ago
I agree great info. U know living in this society its like let the chips fall where they may. Its not a good attitude to have but many people have been manipulated when it comes to the matter of the mind/decision making.
 
Ced Reynolds    362 day(s) ago
Good information Don. It is so important that we put good information in our minds in order to get the outcomes we want. We can't control what others say but we can control how we process it.
 
Lynda Marsden   362 day(s) ago
If you listen to what people want then you can start asking questions and finding out what they would like to do. The most important part of conversation is listening.
 
Carolyn Coleman-Grady   362 day(s) ago
Thank you for sharing this opportunity with all of us. Don you are awesome. Shared on the Ibotoolbox members page on facebook liked too.
 
Mircea Ionel Jr   362 day(s) ago
Thank you Don for your great insights on internet marketing perspective. Nevertheless, it is the way of thinking which drives us towards success or failure. Great blog article - Way to go Don. Two thumbs up and off to all my networks.
 
John E Brown   362 day(s) ago
those sound like a mentors words
 
Sue Mitrisin   362 day(s) ago
What a fabulous perspective Don! I find myself amazed at what people will frivolously spend their money on with absolutely no possibility of return on investment, yet balk when presented with an opportunity to grow their money. We have become nation of spenders on "stuff" instead of a nation of savers for our future betterment. To your continued prosperity and success! Go IBO!
 
Idriss A Diaw   362 day(s) ago
Let's program ourselves to succeed. This blog will be a very helpul tool to avoid failure by changing out mind set.
 
Cheryl Hess   362 day(s) ago
No one wants to be told what to do. We prefer to make our own decisions. In our business our first priority is to inform and let people make their own decision. Well said, Don.
 
Julie Klein    363 day(s) ago
I love your definition of marketing Don. You did a good job explaining how to change the process of being resistant to "sales" to willing to listen.
 
Jason Yost   363 day(s) ago
I get what you're saying, completely. I've experienced those same feelings towards others wanting to sale me something. I'm one of those who like to go for what I'm looking for, get honest and intelligent conversation and answers, then do what I have to do to make it all come around.
 
Lydia Brown   363 day(s) ago
Good info for those still shopping around Don. Some are confused having heard many pitches and some are waiting for something for nothing. You've made it easy for some to make a decision.
 
Russell Morris   363 day(s) ago
Well said Don.
 
Sandy Blomstrom   363 day(s) ago
Great blog, Don ..you are so right about people being skeptical about any opportunity. They immediately shy away from online marketing, MLM, Networker ....any of those terms. I have to admit I was like that, too. But, I do not shut the door on opportunity anymore. Thanks for posting!
 
Dennis Thorgesen   363 day(s) ago
With many of the traffic exchanges you have 6 to 10 seconds to capture the viewers attention. The keyword here is "Capture their attention." When talking to prospective clients this is what you have to do. It is done by finding their wants and needs, then letting them know how your product or service will fill it. Their is no sales pitch involved. The close is the most important part. Listening is the most important factor.
 
Renita Lowry   363 day(s) ago
Excellent commentary and approach to marketing Don....thank you for sharing..have a good one;)
 
Johnny Lee   363 day(s) ago
Excellent blog Don. getting over the "pitch" syndrome is hard to do sometimes, but the real key in marketing is like you say, determining wants and needs. thanks for sharing.
 
Barbara Blevins    363 day(s) ago
Your first sentence makes me wince Don, I used to be one of those hard -nosed sales people - thank goodness I've learnt from it ! In the earlier days ( a lot earlier !), a good salesman never let up - you went for the jugular, and even a negative was a buying sign ! It's a different industry now, people become involved because they 'want' to, and dare I say - I also rate QLXchange . Thanks for posting Don
 
Irene Blackett   363 day(s) ago
You're so right Don, it's not always about being 'sold to', but 'being informed of', however I personally have seen a lot of good programs and affordable ones too and sometimes I don't want to do the work involved or it just doesn't 'fit' me in the moment. Then to have affordable that doesn't require a lot of work and includes learning and earning in the bargain, i feel gives me the opportunity to make more informed decisions! Thanks for post! Irene Blackett
 
Robin Robinson    363 day(s) ago
Great Information Don!I was in the 92% that hated to be Sold. And I had a bad image of the word Salesman. But that has changed, thank goodness. You are showing people something they need. A lot of people complain about not having enough income. But when you offer solutions it sounds too much like work to them. They would rather continue complaining. But a few will see the solution and take it. And they won't know what you have unless you tell them.
 
Dave Kavanagh   363 day(s) ago
It a great article Don,sometimes people are so skeptical that they miss the boat.The $5 cup of coffee only lasts a short time but that $5 investment could last a lifetime.
 
Rui Banganho    363 day(s) ago
Very good Don The words of caution are always welcome. Liked and share
 
Ronald Lee   363 day(s) ago
Nice Don, way to get that out there!
 
Gregory J Smith   363 day(s) ago
nice atricle I know what you mean on this I know alot of folks like his. I know a guy says that he doenst like to be sold to but does selling for a living. Now What up with that! will sahre on FB and Twitter
 
Leslie Goodwin   363 day(s) ago
Wonderful blog Don. Love your honest views.
 
Thomas Wehle   363 day(s) ago
Thanks for sharing, Don. Great blog. T&L
 
Keith Mauseth   364 day(s) ago
Don, excellent blog. You hit the nail on the head. It is hard to get through that natural reluctance.
 
John E Brown   364 day(s) ago
That is true and a partof human nature. I don't like sales calls on the phone at all but they must be very productive because they are dramatically increasing. I am from old-school and I want the facts in my hand black and white before I feel confident. Sharing your Good post, have a great marketing day Don
 
Charles Haire   364 day(s) ago
Absolutely Correct, Don! I echo Bruce's Comments Below.
 
Terrie Campbell   364 day(s) ago
Your are right, it's about showing why they need something, not just telling them they need it.
 
Kathy Stotz   364 day(s) ago
Great blog Don as always! thanks for sharing and I will too!
 
Scott Rising   364 day(s) ago
Once again straight and to the point Don. Quality blog my friend thanks for sharing. T&L for you.
 
Bruce Ashman   364 day(s) ago
Hi Don - great blog and so true. It's as if we have to be "convinced" to buy rather than accepting that it is what we need. Too many opportunities pass us by because of our "resistance to believe" rather than "investing in opportunity". We have no problems spending $5 on a coffee but balk at paying that amount for a possible ling term income stream!!! Surely we can all afford to redirect the coffee money.
 
Beola Moore   364 day(s) ago
Good morning Don Thank you for some very insightful information. Sometimes we do look at the glass half empty instead of half full, so we already have a close mind even before we hear what someone or something is offering us. Keep up the good work. Continued success to you.
 
Doug Jamison   364 day(s) ago
Isnt it true about "being sold" we need those one on one connections. Good job with your blog here.
 


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