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Just what No One Tells An individual About (Muslim) Marriage Events

Published on 3/15/2019
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Singles, singles and more Muslim singles... There are many them, in all shapes, dimensions, races and with various qualifications. Yet, there won't seem to be to be one singleton sparking enough interest to express 'let's take this further and go for a coffee? ' Thus what's going wrong at these marriage events? Just how do single Muslims get married these days?

The hush voices and the deafening awkwardness is inevitable as the singles wait around for the event to start. marriage events

I wact a film tiresomely introduce themselves again and again. I see some public losing interest, playing on their phone or bouncing onto their social media lives. I even experience many bromances and womances blossoming prior to my eyes... huh?

Eventually when the intros are over, comfort... Phew! Then the dissatisfaction hits. Why? Because there's no-one you want approach! You scroll down the set of names and still no-one interests you or is remotely like the person you want to get married to! You get to the end of the checklist and start again wishing you overlooked someone, you understand you haven't and the stifled despair is clear to see... argh!

Fifty percent individuals you've met you don't even remember, some individuals turned up late and missed the intros completely! Clearly creating a good first impression isn't important for all those trying to meet your soul mate!

After much consideration and deliberation the singles send some asks for or accept 'requests to meet' for a one-to-one conversation.

These one-to-one interactions can make you speechless at the lack of 'conversation'! At the other end of the spectrum, amazingly some singles are willing to drop their lives, marry and move in along with you tomorrow! It makes you wonder, what on earth just happened?!

Singles walk away from these one-to-ones feeling completely underwhelmed. The brothers talk at the sisters, hoping something someone said would hook up with them. As the sisters' preferred approach is a aggressive and uncensored interrogation of the brothers' past human relationships and haraam (prohibited) activities... Awkward much!

Despite placing yourself through all of that and with little luck in meeting someone suitable, how do singles get married nowadays... or is it that they just don't?!

Some have been trying to get married for years. They go to marriage events and use online marriage websites yet they're still struggling to find 'the one'. It is said they're okay with it however feeling of eliminate is palpable.

The friends either don't know very well what they want or they think the sisters are too fussy. Whereas the sisters think the brothers are premature, untrustworthy and irresponsible... ouch!

Singles with no 'requests to meet' make a quick exit hoping no-one notices. While some cling on to hope that someone will speak to them at some point.

I watch the event organisers eager to see the lonely hearts find marriage, seek out singles and personally arranged up a 'request to meet' along with other singles. Nevertheless it takes some coaxing, cajoling and a massive scrap of luck to achieve this.

Regrettably sometimes there are also after-effects of these occasions... There are some friends who can't take no for an answer and think following a single Muslimah (Muslim woman) to the bus stop or tracking her down on social media is a good move... Stalker much!!

It simply leaves me with problem: how many brothers and sisters exchange numbers (not including bromances or womances) and actually take the next thing to meet again?

So how does it leave these singles... Do Muslim lonely hearts learn how to 'date' halal? Usually are they at these occasions because they want to be there? Or is it because their siblings, friends and cousins are getting married and they feel left behind!

These marriage events are a great source of gathering other singles. They've effectively paired thousands of couples. But are singles taking full good thing about them?

Usually are the singles buying ignite or even an inkling of one? Is the fact that inquiring for too much as a first meeting? So does that then suggest love at first view is out of the question?

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