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Following Your Dream

Published on 12/12/2016
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[This article comes from Joseph Wilner's site]
 
Following your dreams and doing work you love isn’t an easy path. It can get a little messy.
 
There is the fear of uncertainty, the inevitable learning curve, and palpable resistance to doing the necessary work.

With excuse after excuse we justify why we’re not making change or taking the necessary action.

We end up talking ourselves out of our big dreams and stay stuck in a job and lifestyle that isn’t right for us.

What would you do if you stopped making excuses?

Here are a few common excuses and how to address them.
 
Excuse 1: I Don’t Have the Skills
 
Maybe you dream of being a photographer, an entrepreneur, or a writer but you hold back because you’re a novice.
 
Starting something new quickly teaches us that gaining mastery of our craft can feel like a herculean effort. 
 
But if you’re willing to put in the time and effort, your talent can be cultivated and improved.
 
A big vision has a big learning curve. You have to grow into your vision.
 
Everything you’ve accomplished up to this point required making mistakes and learning along the way.
 
We all have natural skills and talents, so use these to your advantage. If you find a skill set is lacking, make it a priority to invest in developing these skills.
 
Solution: Develop a growth mindset and add deliberate practice
 
You can improve just about any skill if you’re willing to put in the time and effort.
 
With enough deliberate practice you can gain mastery. But you’ll have to be willing to make mistakes - lots of mistakes!
 
Researchers have noted that top performers in every industry are committed to deliberate practice. The best artists, musicians, athletes, CEOs, and entrepreneurs don’t merely work a lot, they work a lot on developing specific skills.
 
What skills do you need to improve?
 
Invest in your potential: set goals for the progress you want to make and create a practice routine.
 
 
Excuse 2: People won’t understand
 
We all want to be validated for the work we do, but people may not understand what we’re doing or why we’re doing it.
 
Peoples’ values are different. We have a different vision for our life and how we want to live.

To live a fulfilling and meaningful life it’s important to know and embrace your values and stop living by other people’s expectations.

Be true to the life you want to live and the person you want to be.
 
People will admire and respect your resolve to do what you believe in.
 
Solution: Decide what success means to you
 
I wish there was painless way to assuage your desire for approval, and eliminate unhelpful people pleasing tendencies, but it’s not that simple.
 
You may never stop caring what people think, but at some point you have care more about your destiny than you do about impressing your parents, your college professor, or your friends on Facebook.
 
Make your “Why” or purpose greater than your need for approval.
 
You need to decide what success means to you and follow this path.
 
 
Excuse 3: I don’t know how
 
How long have you been waiting to “someday” take action?

Most of us aren’t interested in the process of trying, failing, and learning as we go. It shakes our confidence.

Sure we tell ourselves, “I’ll gladly go for it when the time is right and there’s a clear step-by-step blueprint, but until then I’ll keep preparing.”
 
I used to be someone who would point out limitations and think small about my life. Whenever I had an inspiring idea or started thinking about what was possible for my life, I would poke holes in my vision and end up feeling like a hopeless dreamer.

I’ve grown to embrace the uncertainty that comes with innovation and thinking big.

I’ve stopped placing limits on what’s possible and have learned I don’t need to know “how” right away.

Just because I don’t know how, doesn’t mean I can’t start.
 
Solution: Just take the next best step
 
If you’re willing to take baby steps, you’ll be successful. Big results come from the accumulation of taking small steps on a day-to-day basis.
 
Become a lifelong learner and realize that having a career that matters isn’t a clear-cut linear path.

There may or may not be someone doing what you want to do. It may require a little experimenting.

Just get out there and start doing something. Find one small way you can effect some change and make progress. 
 
 
Excuse 4: I can’t handle the success
 
It seems contradictory that we fear our own success, but it’s scary to come to terms with how our life might change if our dreams come true.

Will I still have the same friends? Will I be able to handle the pressure? Will I actually be happy with the outcome? What will I have to give-up?

Making a bigger impact means showing up more powerfully and intentionally. It’s scary to imagine the changes we’ll need to make, and because of this we hold back.

If our self-identity isn’t aligned with our future vision we’ll struggle to change because we won’t actually believe we can become who we need to be.

Following your dream will require an upgrade in your mental programming. It will require you to become a better version of your current self.
 
Solution: Act and think “As if…”
 
The initial obstacle to creating and manifesting a vision is the incongruence between where you are now and where you want to be.
 
Sometimes what we want and who we want to become is a big stretch from our current reality.
 
We need to be prepared mentally and emotionally when we start achieving our biggest goals. Acting "as if", or “fake it till you make it,” can help us reduce our doubts and open up to this new version of ourselves.
 
Ask yourself, “How would someone with this vision live their life? How would they think and act?”
 
Act (and think) "as if", to help you ease into a bigger vision and create a narrative that supports your success.
 
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