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posted on: 7/23/2012 5:33:52 PM EST
Can You Take Criticism?
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Can you take the criticism of a person who has opted in to find out more of your business then suddenly starts in on comparing your opportunity or service to another that didn't sit quite right with them?

Or how about someone calling to solicit you to join their opportunity while blatantly bashing who you are affiliated with?

These are common traits of people that clearly don't know the best strageties for gaining sign ups nor leading in their field. It could also be someone that really wishes to be sold on something.

The question is...Do you know how to take the criticism? Do you feed into the discussion by defending your company? Do you let them go on and on bashing, and then when they pause to take a breath carry on as if those things were not said? Can you take criticism?

It is up to you whether to clarify where they are mistaken or if it's worth your time. Usually, this is an easy call.

What you don't want to happen, is to let those words seed in your mind, distract you from the belief held in your business or to let it fester into anger. Generally, I shrug it off and if felt compelled, share "MY" experience with the company instead of defending every little detail.

There is no accounting for when these times will occur so it's all in preparing for them. You should never lose your cool, but certainly there are times when you'll want to curtly cut the call loose. Stay calm and get over it quickly. Onward and upward!





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Lisa Miller   328 day(s) ago
Onward and upward .. thanks for sharing Leslie! :)
 
Kelly Kish   328 day(s) ago
Great post Leslie, We are gatekeepers in changing peoples lives - you know the old saying "Some Will, Some Won't , So What, Someone is Waiting" Don't ever let anyone steal your dreams. I can show you how to overcome these scenarios the easy way and lazer target your audience for whatever you are promoting contact me if you want to get the skinny
 
Monna Ellithorpe   329 day(s) ago
Hi Leslie, You can't please everyone, so don't try. I do agree if you aren't careful, these kinds of people can distract you from your own goal and make you doubt yourself. Don't let that happen. Have a great day. Monna
 
Dean Corbitt   329 day(s) ago
Awesome blog Leslie... I take it you've had a few of these? lol We all have who are out there really trying to make a difference. I've learned tp become like a duck and let the water just run off my back.
 
Bruce Ashman   330 day(s) ago
Brilliant Leslie - I enjoyed every word you wrote. Criticism is something I try to avoid doing to others...who am I to judge why my business is better than someone else's? I am not. The reality is that we are each suited to businesses that best reflect ourselves, not someone else. There is no harm in being proud of your business, but that does not justify criticism of others. TB&L
 
Romail Bradley Sr   330 day(s) ago
Thanks for writing Leslie ,we all can get a better from reading this.... have a great day !!!
 
BG Jenkins   330 day(s) ago
Hi Leslie, This is an area where we can all do better, just for the fact that with true constructive critcism you are able to do a better job and/or be a better person, if it is justified.
 
Rick Hema   330 day(s) ago
Hi Leslie, there are people out there who are obsessed with trying to bring you down to their level,trust in what we are doing is right for us.
 
Steve/Vicky Bruce   330 day(s) ago
Thanks Leslie, that just happened and then asked us to join him. Enjoy your day and GO IBO
 
Andre Burks   330 day(s) ago
Awesome blog post Leslie spot on thank you for sharing....There are some people out there who look forward to bringing you down, ignore them or better yet educate.....really enjoyed your post
 
Prakash Kunjeer    330 day(s) ago
You are right. Most people do not like criticisms. We must be open to them. There are always three sides to anything...Good, Bad and Ugly. Thanks for excellent blog.
 
Rob Cenname   330 day(s) ago
Very good post Leslie and it's a very common occurrence. You have to have some tough skin in this business and be confident in your abilities. Thanks and I will tweet it for you.
 


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