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His Secret Obsession eBook

Published on 2/16/2017
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This is a common situation, although it can be a very trying one for the reluctant spouse. I had to agree with this wife. I have never seen anything positive come out of married people dating others. I do believe that sometimes a separation can actually save His Secret Obsession your marriage, but this often happens when the spouses stay in contact and remain faithful. That said, this husband didn't seem to want to budge on his proposal. So I offered the wife what I could in the way of suggestions. I will share them below.

Try To Get Him To Agree To A Set Time Period Before You Consider Seeing Other People: I firmly believe that seeing other people should be the last resort. Going through a separation is hard enough. This time period can be filled with self doubt, worry, and insecurity and all of these issues become magnified when you are also having to worry about what your spouse feels for (and is doing with) the people who he is dating. In short, it just adds too many troublesome issues to a situation that is already quite difficult.

So I believe that you should try to change his mind about this, even though changing a mind that is seemingly already made up can be quite difficult. I would suggest agreeing to the separation if it is clear that he is intent on pursuing it. However, then you offer a compromise. You tell him that a separation is difficult enough as a first step. And you ask him to give you a set amount of time, (say 2 weeks,) before you turn your attention back to dating other people.

That way, you are buying yourself some time. And he may find that having some time and space apart will give him the clarity that he needs without him needing to see other women.

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