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Daily Motivation - Every obnoxious act is a cry for help

Published on 9/29/2018
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Every obnoxious act is a
cry for help

Every obnoxious act is a cry for help


Ever noticed how kids throw tantrums when things don't go their way? Did you know that adults behave the same way, except they use a different technique. If you live with an obnoxious person, you know what I am talking about? Or perhaps your boss exhibit obnoxious behavior occasionally?

It can be a nasty affair, so I am suggesting to add a little humor to the situation. Of course, I do not mean that literally, but create a little humor in your mind to make it easier to deal with. Imagine the person with a silly cartoon face, or even in diapers. It might also help to dilute the nasty things that might be said. After all they are the ones with the problem, not you.

It would be awkward if our bosses threw themselves to the ground kicking and screaming whenever we fail to perform as well as they want, don't you think? Depending on their character or even how they were brought up, these people like it when things go their way. No compromise. Most of these people do not even know that they are exhibiting such obnoxious behavior. It consumes them so much that their entire focus is on how badly you or some other person failed or messed up.

If you are ever part of such an episode, simply zoom out until it passes. This might be a perfect time to fantasize about some naughty or funny things, or imagine having a delicious lunch that you've been craving for, or better yet, think about a day on the beach, feeling the gentle sea breeze.

I know that I made a little light of the situation, because it can be very serious. So what ever you do, do not antagonize the person having a tantrum. When you participate in the shenanigan, you're simply adding fuel to the fire and it may quickly spin out of control.

Stay calm, let the situation play out. In your mind see them relaxed, and send them loving thoughts. Chances are, that they will calm down, and come to their senses. At a later time, when the person is in a good mood, you may want to talk to them, to straighten things out.

In most cases, people who behave in such an unreasonable manner, have a troubled past or upbringing. Or they could be undergoing immense stress in their lives, families or work. Then again, some of these people are simply unhappy with who they are and unfortunately spread this misery to those around them.

So the next time someone appears obnoxious, grab some popcorn, and dim the lights. It's show time!

Herb Ratsch




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