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6/5/2012 3:57:04 PM EST
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Rejection...Learn From It
rejection, positive thoughts, opportunity, team support
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Today I received a call from one of my team members...a new marketer and the topic she wanted to talk about was "Rejection" and what she was feeling. My words to her went something like this:
Life is a learning experience; look at your outcomes in life and learn and grow from them. Turn what you believe to be a negative outcome and start to look at it in a positive way.
Rejection should not stop you from pursuing your goals and dreams but should be seen as a learning experience that you can grow from so that next time the opportunity comes up you may be rewarded for your patience, understanding and acceptance of others. You cannot force an outcome no matter how hard you try. You may think you have achieved your goal but the outcome will be short lived. Allow the experience to flow and be understanding in whatever the outcome. Never take anything for granted especially an outcome that you truly do not have any control over.
Listen to the other person and be understanding, for they see things differently from their different life experiences. Accept rejection and move on. Do not punish yourself with the "what if’" or "If only"questions . At the time, what you did was what you thought was right . You may see things differently now but you cannot punish yourself . Acknowledge within yourself that you have grown and that in future you will be more accepting of the outcome no matter how difficult it may be to come to terms with. Learn to love yourself, your good points and even your bad points. Continue on in life and do not stop yourself from experiencing similar experiences that previously caused hurt by being rejected. Remember it is yourself that creates the rejection by putting great expectations on yourself and others in your life. Take away the pressure and high expectations and you will start to remove the possibility of rejection. It is yourself that creates the situation that leads to the hurt. Be accepting and understanding and allow the natural flow of life to take its course.
Rejection is not failure but an "OPPORTUNITY" to learn and grow from the experience. Let go of the hurt and don't punish yourself for your actions. You are on a journey that you must learn and grow from every step you take. It is time to move forward into a positive direction.
That is why we are a "Team", here to support you every step of the way. She thanked me for opening her eyes to another side...and I believe she will see things in a whole new way!
Partners in success!
~Susan
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 | | Every no is one step closer to yes. So true. |
| | |  | | Good Blog Susan. When one door closes another door opens. |
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