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Eight Tips For Good relationships.

Published on 1/23/2013
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Eight Tips For Good relationships. Relationships are one of life most important things in everyone's life. We humans are usually social creatures and while some of us may be more social than others, we all enjoy at least some company. We don't have to be a social butterfly with over hundred friends. Even just having one or two really good friends is enough. We have all kind of relationships and we all may have compatibility issues sometimes depending on what kind of relationship we are in. All of our relationships have certain issues we have to deal with in our everyday life whether it is our wife, husband, friends, co-workers, or children. The fact is: every relationship is a little different and sometimes it can be difficult nurturing and maintaining them in a peaceful way. While we can use different approaches, depending on what kind of relationship we are in, there are some basic ideas that apply to every kind of relationship. Using these basic tips, we should have a much easier time keeping any relationship in a lovingly peaceful manner. Here are eight tips to have a good relationship. 1. Having clear definitions for our relationships is important. We need to think about exactly what kind of relationship we have with someone. A co-worker should not get the same amount of quality time as a spouse, our children or a best friend should get. 2. We should always keep our act together to make sure we do not let our relationship crash and burn. We should always be reliable so others can trust us and be able to rely on us if needed. If we are frequently missing meetings, or late for unexplainable reasons, then it may be a trust issue we are dealing with. If someone tells us that we are not reliable, then we must change our behavior to correct the problem. Whatever the case is, we have to make sure that we are clearly let others know if we won't be able to keep our promises so we won't lose others' trust. 3. Honesty is the best policy, but we have to consider how we word whatever we are saying because harsh words can be hurtful to others. We don't have to lie to anyone, but we should always try to say our honest opinions as gently and lovingly as possible. Using some tactics when we tell someone a criticism is never a bad thing. Criticism can be positive and constructive . 4. We don't have to be a people pleaser, either. There are some people pleaser types of people out there that run around doing anything and everything they can to make others happy. This is a waste of energy. We should just be ourselves and our friends will be happy with that. 5. Gossiping is a bad habit, however some people do it anyway. They may not even mean to be hurtful, but betraying someone's trust and talking behind others' back is always hurtful. If someone confides in us, we should always keep the confidential information to ourselves. 6. We all know the golden rule, that says: treat others as you would like to be treated. This rule is a forever young rule. Therefore, this rule still applies today. If we want to be treated with kindness and respect, then we have to treat others as well with kindness and respect. 7. One of the major compatibility issues we face is that most of the time we simply don't listen. Listening is extremely important in any relationship. We need to accept that everyone has feelings according to a person's internal values and according to each day's challenges that person face at that particular present time. Therefore, we should act accordingly. In other word: we should listen with two ears for finding out how the other person feels and we have to be careful what we are saying and how we are saying things. 8. A relationship is reciprocal. We need to give as much to our relationship as we would like to get from it. If we are not considerate towards others and our friends or family members are always has to do what we want, going where we want to go, then even the best relationships will suffer sooner or later. Then we will wonder: What Happened? Where did we go wrong? Why our relationship is up in smoke? Using or not using these eight rules to have a good relationship will make or break our relationships. It's our choice. Erika Szanto http:///
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