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8/7/2012 4:34:26 AM EST
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Don't Be Too Controlling!
Controlling, Jealousy, Ignorance, Relationships
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Feeling your partner is too controlling is a serious issue; often the warning signs are there very early on in a relationship but tend to get ignored. Possessive and jealous behavior gets excused, taken as a sign that your partner is so madly head over heels in love with you and they just want you all to themselves.
However, over time controlling behavior usually gets worse not better and can really undermine the good things in a relationship. Admitting there’s a problem can be painful; and difficult for both of you. But facing up to it is the first step to ending it and getting your relationship on a more equal footing; but how you might wonder?
People mistakenly think that a relationship is only abusive when there is physical violence or bullying. That’s a common misconception. There’s emotional abuse too; this takes many forms and feeling you are being controlled should be taken as warning sign. No one should feel scared or intimidated by the person they love.
Unlike physical violence ignoring, denying or excusing behavior is especially common when the abuse is psychological, rather than physical.
Feeling constantly controlled or manipulated will over time destroy your confidence, make you anxious and depressed, and often isolates you from people and situations that make you feel good about yourself. The first step to changing things is recognizing when things have become abusive only then you can get the help both of you need. There are many signs that behavior has become too controlling. The most telling sign is feeling scared of your partner. If you feel like you have to walk on eggshells around them or constantly watching what you say or do in order to avoid a row —then your relationship is in danger of becoming abusive. Other signs are that you partner puts you down or will try to control you what you do and who you see.
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 | | | |  | | Very Nice Blog Tommy! Thanks for sharing. |
| | |  | | The Law of Attraction...You Attract the Mirror Reflection of What You Really ARE! The Change always starts Within! When a person changes their circumstances changes! |
| | | | | Thanks Patricia for your comments! |
| | |  | | Thank you for sharing this information. This is all so very true, I was married to a controlling man and it did get worse over time. |
| | |  | | A very true and important look relationships! |
| | |  | | | |  | | Nice article, look forward to more good advise from you! |
| | |  | | Great post Tommy, will check back for more in the future! Thanks for sharing! |
| | |  | | nice blog thanks for sharing |
| | | | | | |  | | Very true, the earlier you can pick it up, the better. |
| | |  | | Nice blogpost about relationships. Thanks for sharing |
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