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Building Confidence from the Inside and Out!
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Building confidence can be a very big challenge, especially if you were always consumed with low self-esteem. I was very shy and had a lack in confidence, growing up. During my big transformation, I learned some very valuable steps.
I am sharing these crucial steps in building confidence with you so that you too can be strong, bold, and likable… so that others follow you. Leaders, in any industry, must be able to take any situation and dominate it.
Building Confidence – Positive Energy Fields
What I mean by this is that no matter what happens, do not think bad of a situation. Always think of the good that can come out of it or that already did. For example, if you get your public speech mixed up, half way through it, don’t panic and believe the world is doing everything against you, while running off stage. Be happy that you made it as far as you did, with great results, and then focus on what you must do to continue on the correct path. This may be to laugh and admit you missed a few points, to the crowd. Don’t show your frustration. People become inspired by those that show true boldness. When you focus on the bad, rather than on the good, you are lining your day up for more bad situations to happen.
With positive energy fields, you are lining the universe up, in your life, and acquiring good circumstances!
I am sure you know some people that are always complaining, whining, and nothing seems to go their way. They are experiencing these unfortunate events because they are attracting negative energy.
Building Confidence – Social Productivity
I cannot say this enough, but if you want to begin building confidence, you must find positive, confident people to associate with. Sometimes, and yes I understand, that we cannot avoid negative people, as we may have a negative family member. You can, however, make choices on who you will spend most of your time with, when it comes to social groups.
When we look at the psychology of relationships, if you associate with someone long enough, you will begin to talk and act in a similar way. If your partner starts talking in a manner that is about how wonderful life is, you will also be thinking and talking about how wonderful life is.
Building Confidence – Training Yourself
It is important to be happy and to put yourself out there, with shining confidence! Are you dependent on others? Are you a go-getter? If you want to be an alpha-leader, rather than a beta (follower), then you must train yourself for confidence. When you walk into a room, you should not feel shy or intimidated. You should feel like you own the place, walking with your head up high, smiling. Boost your confidence by telling yourself, much like an inner voice, that you can do whatever you strive to accomplish. When you start doing this, you’ll begin to watch your life blossom, right in front of your very eyes.
Victor Courville
victorcourville@gmail.com
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 | | Great Blog on Confidence!! GO IBO |
| | |  | | Victor this is great! This will help so many others. Thank you for sharing! |
| | |  | | Great Blog Post Victor Courville, on Building Confidence from the Inside and Out thank you for sharing this valuable information |
| | |  | | Very nice blog Victor. There is probably a lot of people who were shy but like you and I have changed. |
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Nice Blog great info. Victor, Thanks for sharing I'll tweet for you GO IBO |
| | |  | | Great Blog Full of info we all need |
| | |  | | I agree with this blog I started to apply the same techniques and my Income jumped to 6 times what I was making great info. |
| | |  | | Great blog some really good information thank you. |
| | |  | | | |  | | Thanks for sharing, I prefer being around positive people! |
| | |  | | very good, thanks for sharing! |
| | |  | | nice blog thanks for sharing |
| | |  | | Great article! Well-written, and one can tell you've learned this by experience as well as by the experiences of others. Will gladly share with FB and twitter. |
| | |  | | Great blog and content. Love it and thanks for sharing. |
| | |  | | Great guidance for us all, Victor. Thank you for sharing these ways to nurture more confidence in our daily activities. |
| | |  | | You are absolutely correct Victor - we must all attract positive people in our lives - it helps tremendously getting over the hurdles that life hands us. Being positive is the only way - find the good in every situation. Thank you! |
| | |  | | Confidence always starts on the inside, you just need to know how to bring it outside more often. |
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